tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8766973.post8685495557353976448..comments2023-07-23T07:47:42.360-05:00Comments on Life As I Know It...: The Curse of "Falling in Love"...FeedingYourMindhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16542158699816108523noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8766973.post-4731280477420419952012-03-12T16:12:52.235-05:002012-03-12T16:12:52.235-05:00I believe in what has been said by Peck. I have ha...I believe in what has been said by Peck. I have had this experience over and over. When I was married, I wnet through the fsalling out of love experience and schose to love. My wife did not. When she fell out of love she said she didn;t love me, which was true. She also didn't know she needed to grow. Mariage is a spiritual union that requires many things like nurishment to ourselves and the other, date nights, working at love, working at affection, working at attraction. Lately I have been the victim of what Peck calls "the unequalibrium of the falling in love experience" No two people fall in love at the same time.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8766973.post-45049102790875141532009-08-23T10:01:19.096-05:002009-08-23T10:01:19.096-05:00this is so interesting, i honestly have enough to ...this is so interesting, i honestly have enough to think about after this article.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15738509808441253687noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8766973.post-51644232841290709292009-08-23T10:01:05.819-05:002009-08-23T10:01:05.819-05:00this is so interesting, i honestly have enough to ...this is so interesting, i honestly have enough to think about after this article.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15738509808441253687noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8766973.post-59973507350788827062007-06-29T17:08:00.000-05:002007-06-29T17:08:00.000-05:00I agree that "falling in love" is different than "...I agree that "falling in love" is different than "love." I do not, however, agree that you need to know each other for any set amount of time before marriage for that exact reason. It is very easy for you to say this, because you have never been married. I said the same thing before I made the committment to marry Lucas, but I was wrong. Love is a decision you make every day, over and over. It doesn't matter if you know someone two months or two decades before you marry them. Regardless of how well you know them, love is still a decision. Anyone who has had the experience of marriage knows this very well. Sure it could POSSIBLY be better if you know them longer, but it doesn't mean that it's necessarily essential or beneficial.Jenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11495704954664451744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8766973.post-81758902567678220292007-06-25T23:03:00.000-05:002007-06-25T23:03:00.000-05:00From Hollylovebug: (It won't let me sign in to lea...From Hollylovebug: <BR/>(It won't let me sign in to leave this comment)<BR/><BR/>Hmm. Makes me wonder if Mr. Peck has ever been in love before. heh. Sounds like an interesting book.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8766973.post-55690826194714254542007-06-25T21:11:00.000-05:002007-06-25T21:11:00.000-05:00i LIKE this entry.i LIKE this entry.Juliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00305754302915476649noreply@blogger.com